Self-satisfaction : The ultimate goal

The most rare thing seen in this world??- if this is the question to be asked then nothing can better suit or take the place as "Self-satisfaction".

        Friends go back to your very early days when u were a baby, you had nothing with you no friends, no knowledge of how to keep yourself, not aware of what you want ,what you dont want, all on dependency but still u were happy, you had the power to make yourself happy which surely you wont now, you were so content full that time right?? But now you have money, u have friends, u have no that dependencies, you have all the facilities to lead a perfect life but still life is not perfect, you are not happy with yourself, you have no power now to make yourself happy, no contentment na?? why friends where is it going wrong. See in your childhood days you will be sitting outside in the mud and playing with mud, eating mud and even infact throwing stones , while doing it you will so dam happy right, but the moment mom sees you "No beta u should not do this, its not gud........" , the contentment and the happiness is lost. But i don't mean mom was wrong. She was right and always will be ....... a part  of it was lost in understanding what is right and what is wrong. But after knowing what is right where the hell is remaining thing going wrong. I reason out that it may be because of not making the research on reason of our birth and  lack of intrinsic motivation.

          Once there was the huge family of crows living happily on the huge banyan trees in the thick forest. Among them two of the crows were waiting for their baby to hatch out of the egg. And very soon they got the new member in their family. And these mother and father used to leave the young one in the nest and go for hunting food, during that time a flock of peacocks used to come there for their hunt and used to enjoy dancing in the rain by opening their long beautiful feathers. The young crow daily used to wait desperately for peacocks. The crow started going mad of peacocks. It slowing started developing the feeling  that i should also luk like them.  And one day it told its mom regarding the same, but the mom said "the way we are, we are gud". But the baby crow was not in a state to listen. The next day when the peacocks were back to their homes after enjoyment,  the baby crow went and collected the handful of beautiful peacock feathers which fall off from the dancing peacocks. Then next day when the peacocks were there, the baby crow pricked the feathers  into its feather  and joined the group of peacock. The peacocks were happy seeing that, because they taught it was the gud chance to laugh on crows, so peacocks told the baby crow that it was looking very beautiful that too much more than them. The baby crow was very happy. Once the elder crow returned, the baby crow told that hence forth it will join the peacocks and it cant stay with black people. The peacocks laughed at the crows like anything. And the baby crow went with them. The crow family was very sad and were also in a guilt of having such a kid. The sorrow days of crows started rolling down, after few days they saw the baby crow walking back to their place alone!!!!. The baby crow was trembling with no energy to stand, as the peacocks found their food  alone and had alone. They didn't share the food with all as crows did. And the baby crow was not at all familiar with finding food. The mother crow hugged the baby crow and made it settle down. That day the baby crow came to know the worth of being crow and also the worth of being peacock.

             Hmmm this is what called as intrinsic motivation. It is motivation of oneself for being satisfied with what they are. The same happens in our life friends. Take the simple example when u buy a new dress, u r very happy and wear it to office, and to your dam surprise your colleague is also wearing the new dress. Her dress looks much pretty for u than yours. And start cursing yourself for not having that. But in that situation why to depress the feeling of "i am wearing a new dress which i like". why the hell we always keep on solving problem rather than celebrating the achievements.

             Let me take the other most common situation, the boy very keen and well interested in  playing cricket but still they are made to opt for a gud software engineer role, just because its secure, just because the people around him want to see him in that place. Its fine that the job makes your life secure. But opting that job at the cost of  one s happiness, one s satisfaction, one s contentment is not at all worth friends. Do something which makes you happy. Do something which make you live your life. choosing the job which u like to do is not selfishness, its self-satisfaction. Don't be want others want you to be in life, be want you want to be.

              Life is unpredictable and complicated too with ups and down. And this creates lots of instability among oneself.The only way to maintain composure is by seeking and eventually achieving self-satisfaction.

  

Will

               Once there was the community of frogs living happily altogether in families. And as in our human community, the risky bike race held in colleges, a very similar kind of race was held between them .The thing was that the frogs have to reach the top of the steep hill and make their community flag flew on top of hill,which was nothing less than the guniess world records. The hill was thorny and rocked. It was very risky. And atlast the day race arrived.  On that day almost 30,000 frogs have registered for the race.At the start all the 30,000 frogs were high on heels and were breathing heavily to start the game. All the mom and dad frogs were standing beside the race track with the great fear about the lives of their children. and the game started. after certain interval of time,  due to sudden increase in the steepness of the hill about 700 frogs rolled down the hill. some got very deep cut and wound in their boady parts and some of them were in very critical condition. All the parents became very much worried of  their children. All the parents started yelling for their children, that "no need of race get back"."u will loose your life get back" ........................... some of the frogs gave up hearing their parents. But some still continued, and the steepness increased and had got the curve in the hill due to which some again rolled back and put their lives in risk.Again the loud of parents started yelling out saying "children come down its enough now". See some frogs down some got fear and quit the game. And at the end of the game a very risky stage, there were about 10 frogs left out, out which some rolled back and some started hearing their parents but out of 10, 1 did it. And the frog which did that was came to be known atlast as deaf and dumb frog and coudnt hear anybody over there. Some times the disadvantages become advantages right??. But the thing to be taken in mind is the will power of the only frog among 30000. Though its deafness and dumbness added up to build its power. It was its will power which took it there.
             When once the matter of u achieving your goal comes in mind, its all the action of will power which takes u till your success.Once you throw yourself in the volly of aims... neither the situation matter, nor the opposition, nor the hindrance matter, the only thing that is going to matter is the tip of the success and the kind of inspirational feeling within you saying "I Dare" nothing but the so called "will". Once u get into your aim your "I Dare" feeling will make you deaf and dumb towards the oppositions. And puts on the craze within you of achieving and experiencing the heaven.
             But the invoking of will is done by understanding where your success lies..... the success may be in completing the particular task at the end of the day, it may be killing a person or it may be waking up at 6 in the morning...........  in simple sense to become successful doesnt mean u need to aim to become Indira Gandhi. Anything which u wish, aspire, and get it done is a success weather it may be sketching a picture or giving up cigarette.
           Even in our kg class story of rabbit and turtle rather than physical strength it was the strength of will which won at last. Know where actually your success lies, and win the success with will, Because "where there is  a will there is a way"