Relations, the fuel for engine called life, the breathe for live called life, the glucose for the system called life. And what not the relations cant be!!We all are very well aware that relations run on trust, but trust develops only when time is given for the relations to develop as a relationship.In today's time ruled world, we ourselves getting time is a big deal , on top giving time to the relations is really a big deal!!! Recently heard a joke cumming which made me think of this concept. The maid making a boy sleep, that he in between wakes up and asks, I have been seeing since few days the people cumming late night to our home. So the madeanswered oh! you saw them?! they are your parents!!!!!. this is the present world my friends. This was of the most important relation called parent and child.Apart from our by birth relations like mom,dad,uncle, aunt, granny ,grandpa, brother ,sister,husband ,wife, girl frnd,boy frnd.... there also happen to certain relations like neighbours, far friends, your house maids(don't you think with routine help you develop a relation with them) leave apart everything ,think of a relation with collègue who not at all related with your work, who never has time to talk with u, but every morning before occupying the cubicle gives you a energytic smile, even we have a kind of relation with them , isn't it???
Yes we do! And trust me Friends these are the ones which make us live, only the thing is realisation comes very late! And these relations which we are forgetting to enjoy just because of time factor, have seamless energy intact in them, which even has the power to make you fight to live.
Yes we do! And trust me Friends these are the ones which make us live, only the thing is realisation comes very late! And these relations which we are forgetting to enjoy just because of time factor, have seamless energy intact in them, which even has the power to make you fight to live.
Just went through an article by a well known breast cancer specialist, who says, at the start when she used to come across the women who had death at their next destiny used to give up living before the cancer has already caught up their breathe. Dr says as the human Psychology goes, once the person gets to know , that he has no more time,in his rest part of the life he obviously does nothing but waits for the death, which makes him die more than thousand times before his actual death. This was the doctors study and decided to do something for this. the doctor started educating the people that there are the ones who are already like u, who already are facing it.She made the patients realise how important it was for them to get out of the home and meet people who are as them.She made the patients community and made them to exchange there words that what makes them reduce pain(Mentally and physically).Doctor in turn made them group on the social site. And insisted them to keep meeting daily and provoked them to educate the other patients who then after started including.And drastically doctor started seeing that the patients actually got so involved in their community work that they almost forgot that they will die and she started seeing that patients started living to their maximum periods.
If this is the power of the relation, if they can make you forget your death, then when we being healthy, why not invest on our relations? See friends,, its a crucial thing to have a look on. Recently got to some ladies who are stressed because, their 1 year kid calls their maid mom , though these ladies being in front. No one can imagine what these ladies actually go through in these situation.Agree that these are not the days where mom can sit all the time with their children. But what can be done to come out of such things. Think guys think....I feel that though you cant give time for relations, at least you can opt giving realisation of your relation to the respective relatives. Cant we??? cant we just call your kids periodically and realise them that you are out to fetch them a chocolate each day, cant we just call our old age people at their tablet time and ask them did they take it? Trust me ,after this weather they live longer or no but 100% they will aspire to live long.Because the feeling that somebody wants me to live, which will be born after your call, does all of its work on own.cant we just call our maids once in week and appreciate them?? cant you just call your partner before having lunch??? When we have already become robots attending 20-30 calls at minimun rate, I don't think the extra of 4-5 calls of 4-5 min a day will have adverse affect. What say guys?? This may appear silly, but brings in lot of difference.
I just want to tell that in this time ruled world, if you cant invest time on relations, at least give the realisation to all your relations that you are not able to spend time, but you owe them all your trust, concern , care and love. Just a realisation frnds. I don't mean it has to be call always,a well timely gift, a well timely planned meet of 5 mins will also do. So just see that you make all your relatives of any order realise that you owe a relation with them.
If this is the power of the relation, if they can make you forget your death, then when we being healthy, why not invest on our relations? See friends,, its a crucial thing to have a look on. Recently got to some ladies who are stressed because, their 1 year kid calls their maid mom , though these ladies being in front. No one can imagine what these ladies actually go through in these situation.Agree that these are not the days where mom can sit all the time with their children. But what can be done to come out of such things. Think guys think....I feel that though you cant give time for relations, at least you can opt giving realisation of your relation to the respective relatives. Cant we??? cant we just call your kids periodically and realise them that you are out to fetch them a chocolate each day, cant we just call our old age people at their tablet time and ask them did they take it? Trust me ,after this weather they live longer or no but 100% they will aspire to live long.Because the feeling that somebody wants me to live, which will be born after your call, does all of its work on own.cant we just call our maids once in week and appreciate them?? cant you just call your partner before having lunch??? When we have already become robots attending 20-30 calls at minimun rate, I don't think the extra of 4-5 calls of 4-5 min a day will have adverse affect. What say guys?? This may appear silly, but brings in lot of difference.
I just want to tell that in this time ruled world, if you cant invest time on relations, at least give the realisation to all your relations that you are not able to spend time, but you owe them all your trust, concern , care and love. Just a realisation frnds. I don't mean it has to be call always,a well timely gift, a well timely planned meet of 5 mins will also do. So just see that you make all your relatives of any order realise that you owe a relation with them.
