After a long time my pen just went this way.....They say blowing off other's candle doesn't make our candle to glow more brighter. When such is the case why we are not concentrating on our own candle to make it glow brighter. Thinking only of you makes you selfish, but thinking of you never makes you so.But when you slightly tilt your view on life, its all about keeping you as you.Many circumstances that come in your life give a try to change you, it may either be to impress others or you may be forced to change, when you are under the control of somebody s favors. Under both the cases you will not be free enough to be your
self and we give up our inside we. So what ever be the situation we never owe our inner self to any body!
Guys have you ever seen yourself when you be you. You look so beautiful to yourself.And there is no need of it to be accepted by others. you need to accept yourself.
The most often cases which we come across is we say yes, when our inside we is jumping within our self and saying Noooo!. aah there we lost half of our breathe by saying yes and other half by doing it breathlessly.We just need to do simple things, ask yourself consciously , why am I doing it? will it make you feel guilty if you wont?is you within you accepting it?. Friends ultimately choice will be yours that you want to stay being yourself or you want to give away your power just to be acceptable in the eyes of others.
I just came across a scene some days back, few 5 th grade students were discussing . One said I have seen this movie and its good because so and so, but the other immediately took it up, hey I have already seen it , nothing in it. You all guys need to watch the the other movie. It awesome dude He expressed right from the costumes to the scenes in the movie...when every one left the group the thing that was running in their mind was to check out for the movie which other Guy had said about...
Now friends apart from the speaking ability and dominance of the second student, please slightly look at the scene in the different angle. Wasn't the second student powerful because of inner himself.For his inside he being with himself ,he never thought of what opposite comments he will get by saying this is a good movie. Instead by expressing it He kind of created his view on the picture in other mind as well. Wasn't that really powerful. Now coming to the first student. He could have opposed the dominance of the second student by expressing his view on the movie he has seen. But with the dominance of the second student he came under a fear consciousness that may be nobody here likes it. Then and there itself he lost inner himself. Instead if he had tapped his back for seeing something different in that movie which other's couldn't see it and had expressed it then, the situation would have gone totally reversed.
This is just a small scene of the student friends, like wise all such small situation were we partly start leaving our inner our self behind, altogether make our inner self loose totally.Though self pride & ego, and self esteem & dominance attitude have thin line between... self pride and self esteem are very beautiful things in life.Which really make life Beautiful. You will start seeing the beauty of life in small things which other can even wont think about...
Just don't lead the life of other which society wants,Which ultimately dismisses happiness. The fulfillment comes from just living the life of you....
So just see that you are being you!
self and we give up our inside we. So what ever be the situation we never owe our inner self to any body!
Guys have you ever seen yourself when you be you. You look so beautiful to yourself.And there is no need of it to be accepted by others. you need to accept yourself.
The most often cases which we come across is we say yes, when our inside we is jumping within our self and saying Noooo!. aah there we lost half of our breathe by saying yes and other half by doing it breathlessly.We just need to do simple things, ask yourself consciously , why am I doing it? will it make you feel guilty if you wont?is you within you accepting it?. Friends ultimately choice will be yours that you want to stay being yourself or you want to give away your power just to be acceptable in the eyes of others.
I just came across a scene some days back, few 5 th grade students were discussing . One said I have seen this movie and its good because so and so, but the other immediately took it up, hey I have already seen it , nothing in it. You all guys need to watch the the other movie. It awesome dude He expressed right from the costumes to the scenes in the movie...when every one left the group the thing that was running in their mind was to check out for the movie which other Guy had said about...
Now friends apart from the speaking ability and dominance of the second student, please slightly look at the scene in the different angle. Wasn't the second student powerful because of inner himself.For his inside he being with himself ,he never thought of what opposite comments he will get by saying this is a good movie. Instead by expressing it He kind of created his view on the picture in other mind as well. Wasn't that really powerful. Now coming to the first student. He could have opposed the dominance of the second student by expressing his view on the movie he has seen. But with the dominance of the second student he came under a fear consciousness that may be nobody here likes it. Then and there itself he lost inner himself. Instead if he had tapped his back for seeing something different in that movie which other's couldn't see it and had expressed it then, the situation would have gone totally reversed.
This is just a small scene of the student friends, like wise all such small situation were we partly start leaving our inner our self behind, altogether make our inner self loose totally.Though self pride & ego, and self esteem & dominance attitude have thin line between... self pride and self esteem are very beautiful things in life.Which really make life Beautiful. You will start seeing the beauty of life in small things which other can even wont think about...
Just don't lead the life of other which society wants,Which ultimately dismisses happiness. The fulfillment comes from just living the life of you....
So just see that you are being you!
