Aspirations

Aspirations!!! what liveliness this word intact right?!!!! have seen many of us using dreams , goals, and aspirations interchangeably. But i feel like  as though their core meaning is  being murderd. I feel its worth knowing the meaning of these words individually, not just to stop the murdering of their core meaning with our incorrect usage, but also to make ourselves aware of, Are we dreaming, Are we aspiring or Are we setting goals???? Among these 3 the initiator role is played by "Dreams" ,a very magical thing right? Dono how it initiates from where it initiates but still the dreams come when u asleep and wake u up with a wish. But the thing is dreams come to every body, but very few will learn/ make themselves to live dreams.The dream is a goal without legs. Getting those goals the legs and having them to move towards,is all going to a matter of luck/u?? u need to decide.

 To transform your dreams to goals you need to clarify it, give them the details so that you can see it, feel it, live it. Make yourself know what kind of feeling you are going to have after reaching there, so that you totally dissolve in to it. Humans are by default hopeful creatures we think about the future as though it will occur for us with absolute certainty and that makes it hard to imagine death as the motivation of life. Why do we do things that we do everyday? Whats our purpose? Am i acting honestly for my dreams and aspirations? but wait a minute!!! our purpose????? anybody is going to come and tell us that this is your purpose? wait and discover your purpose.very late we realise that purpose is something we have to create for ourselves.

 Here s one live example from Mrs Susan Boyle, who dreamt of singing infront of large crowd and she did it at the age of 47 with Style!!!, with audience applauding,cheering. With the viewers from whole globe.

How many times you were offered for the dream, but certainly will be followed by the conversation like-"Do you think at my age I can do this?" or am I too old for it?!

or "If I was of your age would have done it?" or many more excuses like this...............

You can fill the pages with excuses. But why Mrs Boyle didn't do it?

She didn't and did it Big Time!!!

There is no difference between you , me and Mrs Boyle. We all are humans, so we can try and try again

Its was Thomas Edison who rightly said-"I did not fail,because every attempt I got rid of, took me another step forward"- If you fail, its wonderful!! It means you have one more step towards Success.

So also Mrs Boyle, god knows after how many failures, success knocked her doors.

Always the approach shouldn't be:

"If I could, I would" but "If I would, I could"

Just dare to try-

Just saw on Face book, want to share it here too, by Chetan Bhagat-

I see guys spending weeks, months trying to make a girl happy.

I see girls endlessly waiting for their guys to calls

Is that all your life all about? For your lover to validate? or to make the relationship work?

Instead why not focus on yourself, working on goals, learning something, being a positive person, helping others.

That will boost your self esteem far more than any lover ever could.