Optimistic, very complicated word right?? But has the power of making your life take a smart U turn. For which the thing to be done is its implementation. Optimist ism is not of whats happening in your life buts its all about what can happen in your life. Its all about a half filled glass and not about half empty glass.Its of you being a cause and not being a effect. Its not about the darkness in the tunnel but its all about light at the end of tunnel. The pessimist always think of what worst can happen and spend all of the energy in negative things instead of shifting the focus on what good can happen which in turn will make miss opportunity, neglect the problems to be solved and make u fail to take actions at right time. Ideally speaking nobody is idol in being optimistic and nobody is born optimistic, its all of developing within you an optimistic person.
So its the right time to give thought on why we all lean more towards pessimism. My research says there may be two things---------
1. Either your mates, whether it may be parents,fiends, brother, sister any one who always make you do think in that direction.
2. your past history
You can over come from first thing, but for that identification of that element is very important and then after hear for them but never listen. I don't mean your mates are misguiding you but it happens because of the habitual gaps.
Second thing is,the past negative experiences would have left never heeling mark on your life, which always come into picture in every situation and its quite human. So its high time to think that all times are not same. Just because you have experienced pain in past it doesn't mean what starts badly must end up bad.
Once there was a German badminton player it seems, i too exactly don't remember his name. A very confident,successful, inspirational player counted in tops. He was swinging in melody of peace,With success in one hand and peaceful life in other. Days passed on and at last he had a black day of his life, he got a positive result for his cancer tests. The moment was just like pulling the earth beneath his legs. He was smashed like anything.But within the splash of time he was back with the same confidence knowing that the time left with him was hardly a year.And in one of his interview when symphatized by journalist telling "God wouldn't have done this to u" and his only response was "whenever i have held my trophies in hand, have never asked god "why trophy only for me??" so today have no right to ask "why Cancer only for me??"".Hmmm great man right?? He was not great by birth, he was not that great as badminton player but he is great by his great response and his great attitude. This is Optimist ism.
As this is the talk on being optimistic, i wont be doing judgement to the topic if i wont remember my grandpa here. He was very bold ,strong and a very gud leader within himself.One day unfortunately even he was detected with cancer, trust me when people came to see him at the hospital for first time in guilt, he has made them walk back laughing. And after this he was suggested a surgery. And he was taken to one of the top hospital in mumbai only with my dad,and atlast it was a day of surgery, there was Q for surgery. He was in third turn to get operated, Before him was a lady, who was very sturdy and walking healthy in front of the operation theatre for her turn. Her turn came and was taken in and within an hour her dead body was out. My dad trembled out in sweat (He still keeps on remembering this), he felt like taking my grannpa and running out. When he said the same to grandpa he laughed and went in, got operated and then after survived for 7 long years.Though it was his boldness which took him in, it is optimist ism within him which made him survive for 7 long years. So this post is dedicated to him.
The only thing i want to tell is when u start feeling down about future, remember life is too short,and pessimism broods nothing other than waste of time. I don't tell u think that always gud vl happen so that others take advantage of u but instead be a rational optimist. Take gud with bad. Hope for best but be prepared for worst.
So its the right time to give thought on why we all lean more towards pessimism. My research says there may be two things---------
1. Either your mates, whether it may be parents,fiends, brother, sister any one who always make you do think in that direction.
2. your past history
You can over come from first thing, but for that identification of that element is very important and then after hear for them but never listen. I don't mean your mates are misguiding you but it happens because of the habitual gaps.
Second thing is,the past negative experiences would have left never heeling mark on your life, which always come into picture in every situation and its quite human. So its high time to think that all times are not same. Just because you have experienced pain in past it doesn't mean what starts badly must end up bad.
Once there was a German badminton player it seems, i too exactly don't remember his name. A very confident,successful, inspirational player counted in tops. He was swinging in melody of peace,With success in one hand and peaceful life in other. Days passed on and at last he had a black day of his life, he got a positive result for his cancer tests. The moment was just like pulling the earth beneath his legs. He was smashed like anything.But within the splash of time he was back with the same confidence knowing that the time left with him was hardly a year.And in one of his interview when symphatized by journalist telling "God wouldn't have done this to u" and his only response was "whenever i have held my trophies in hand, have never asked god "why trophy only for me??" so today have no right to ask "why Cancer only for me??"".Hmmm great man right?? He was not great by birth, he was not that great as badminton player but he is great by his great response and his great attitude. This is Optimist ism.
As this is the talk on being optimistic, i wont be doing judgement to the topic if i wont remember my grandpa here. He was very bold ,strong and a very gud leader within himself.One day unfortunately even he was detected with cancer, trust me when people came to see him at the hospital for first time in guilt, he has made them walk back laughing. And after this he was suggested a surgery. And he was taken to one of the top hospital in mumbai only with my dad,and atlast it was a day of surgery, there was Q for surgery. He was in third turn to get operated, Before him was a lady, who was very sturdy and walking healthy in front of the operation theatre for her turn. Her turn came and was taken in and within an hour her dead body was out. My dad trembled out in sweat (He still keeps on remembering this), he felt like taking my grannpa and running out. When he said the same to grandpa he laughed and went in, got operated and then after survived for 7 long years.Though it was his boldness which took him in, it is optimist ism within him which made him survive for 7 long years. So this post is dedicated to him.
The only thing i want to tell is when u start feeling down about future, remember life is too short,and pessimism broods nothing other than waste of time. I don't tell u think that always gud vl happen so that others take advantage of u but instead be a rational optimist. Take gud with bad. Hope for best but be prepared for worst.
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