The only relation which we choose(not god made), the only relation found in every other relation. Which starts just with the simple hiii and ends with zero selfishness. Frnd!!!! the only one with whom u can share everything which sometimes even u cannot with your parents, the only one to enjoy icecream infront of u when ur on sick bed, the only one who says "where s the treat" when u say "i am going to die" . But still the first to hold hand when walking alone in crowd, the only one on whom u can belive closing your eyes. So sometimes i feel we people have beaten up god in choosing and making relations wont u??
The things like treats, b'day parties, b'day bumbs, gossips, first show movies with popcrons, silly fights with attitude for flawless things, silly cries with loud laughters, tours and trips contribute a lot to keep it lively.Feels great right when we contribute as somebodys frnd,or even when we have frnd.
Know these days frnds list will be increasing day by day. we should see in facebook, omg!!!! the number tho goes beyond 1000........... But tell me seriously frnds, how many frnds do u have so that u can put hand on your heart and tell yourself proudly that"This is my frnd"??? if in your answer you have a single person also, then trust me frndz u have lived your life. But my frndz on other side whose answer is zero, this is dedicated u all, and belive me i am one among ur team. And this idea kicked in me while watching the climax of "3 iditos", seeing farhan and raju kicking aamir at last..... really bought a feeling in me "wish if i had a frnd like this....."
So its right time to think, what and where is it going wrong. Are we so bad and others are too gud, or is it vice versa that we are too gud and others are too bad.Ha is it so?? No its not the thing.
Once there was a geograhy class going on in first standard.First day first lesson on geography,as usual the world map was on board. All students very egarly staring at the board. Mam introduced all the parts as much a she can. And later it was time to end the class. Before ending she announced that they are going have puzzle test tomorrow at same time on what they have studied. All students went home, and tried their best to remember the outline of the world atleast.(u people dont get panic as they are first standard students they did it, later when they reach college they did the same as us). Hmmm next day morning asusual the class started,teacher came in and it was now puzzle time. She gave each student a box with broken pieces of paper.Told them they have pieces of world map and start rearranging. All very enthusiatically started, but everybody ended in nothing, all started luking at each other with mum faces. Mam was still quite. But something happend, the paper pieces of a student flew away bcoz of air, he went and started collecting them, while collecting he observed that there were some pictures of the boady parts of the man at the back side of the pieces. He started arranging them and brought out a man out of those pieces. And when he turned out the arranged pieces upside down, It was very correctly arranged world map. He was happy like anything.Now the mam interrupted, "see students this was not only a puzzle but want to teach u basic lesson, can anybody tell what did u learn??". No body answered... And the moral of the story was "IF U ARE PERFECT, WORLD IS PERFECT" as simple as that
So if u are good world is good, if u are bad world is bad.
Never expect your frnd to be same as you bcoz its as gud as expecting to hold your frnds right hand in your right hand and walking together which is never possible.
Never expect your frnd to be Mr/Miss perfect, instead make him/her Mr/Miss perfect.
Naturally or basically your frnd may not be of your type, his likes may be your dislikes, but nothing worng in having him as frnd. Have them as a frnd, trust them once, they will trust you forever.But always have a frnd in such way who proudly says "he/she is dam boring and yuky but still she is my frnd" i mean who accepts u along with your weakness and strength.
One more thing to strengthen the life of ur frndship, always share your frnds strength infront of others but weakness only with that individual frnd.
Accept the way you are,love yourself for whatever you are and most importantly accept your frnds the way they are, and have frnds forever..................
The things like treats, b'day parties, b'day bumbs, gossips, first show movies with popcrons, silly fights with attitude for flawless things, silly cries with loud laughters, tours and trips contribute a lot to keep it lively.Feels great right when we contribute as somebodys frnd,or even when we have frnd.
Know these days frnds list will be increasing day by day. we should see in facebook, omg!!!! the number tho goes beyond 1000........... But tell me seriously frnds, how many frnds do u have so that u can put hand on your heart and tell yourself proudly that"This is my frnd"??? if in your answer you have a single person also, then trust me frndz u have lived your life. But my frndz on other side whose answer is zero, this is dedicated u all, and belive me i am one among ur team. And this idea kicked in me while watching the climax of "3 iditos", seeing farhan and raju kicking aamir at last..... really bought a feeling in me "wish if i had a frnd like this....."
So its right time to think, what and where is it going wrong. Are we so bad and others are too gud, or is it vice versa that we are too gud and others are too bad.Ha is it so?? No its not the thing.
Once there was a geograhy class going on in first standard.First day first lesson on geography,as usual the world map was on board. All students very egarly staring at the board. Mam introduced all the parts as much a she can. And later it was time to end the class. Before ending she announced that they are going have puzzle test tomorrow at same time on what they have studied. All students went home, and tried their best to remember the outline of the world atleast.(u people dont get panic as they are first standard students they did it, later when they reach college they did the same as us). Hmmm next day morning asusual the class started,teacher came in and it was now puzzle time. She gave each student a box with broken pieces of paper.Told them they have pieces of world map and start rearranging. All very enthusiatically started, but everybody ended in nothing, all started luking at each other with mum faces. Mam was still quite. But something happend, the paper pieces of a student flew away bcoz of air, he went and started collecting them, while collecting he observed that there were some pictures of the boady parts of the man at the back side of the pieces. He started arranging them and brought out a man out of those pieces. And when he turned out the arranged pieces upside down, It was very correctly arranged world map. He was happy like anything.Now the mam interrupted, "see students this was not only a puzzle but want to teach u basic lesson, can anybody tell what did u learn??". No body answered... And the moral of the story was "IF U ARE PERFECT, WORLD IS PERFECT" as simple as that
So if u are good world is good, if u are bad world is bad.
Never expect your frnd to be same as you bcoz its as gud as expecting to hold your frnds right hand in your right hand and walking together which is never possible.
Never expect your frnd to be Mr/Miss perfect, instead make him/her Mr/Miss perfect.
Naturally or basically your frnd may not be of your type, his likes may be your dislikes, but nothing worng in having him as frnd. Have them as a frnd, trust them once, they will trust you forever.But always have a frnd in such way who proudly says "he/she is dam boring and yuky but still she is my frnd" i mean who accepts u along with your weakness and strength.
One more thing to strengthen the life of ur frndship, always share your frnds strength infront of others but weakness only with that individual frnd.
Accept the way you are,love yourself for whatever you are and most importantly accept your frnds the way they are, and have frnds forever..................
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